When news broke of a “schizophrenic 15-year-old murdering mother and sister” in 2010, the whole of Hong Kong was glued to their screens from the moment of the incident to the ultimate ruling. Yet, slowly, people stopped caring. What was left was the father of the family who had to go on, continue moving forward with his son, and continue being a father. 

14 years later, a Hong Kong movie based on this incident premiered. When Director Phillip Yung made the movie, he wasn’t focused on the crime or the motives, the criticisms or doubts. Rather, Yung wanted to find out whether a father who has suffered a tremendous beating to the heart can pick himself out from the pits of despair. Sean Lau who plays the father delivers a raw, nuanced and moving performance that leaves audiences with much to think about. 

After finishing the script for Port of Call (2015), Yung was tasked by another director to gather information about the murder case and to prepare the script for the movie. Through this process, he met Mr Kam, the father in the case. “I talked a lot with him, and I realised that a lot of things can’t be fabricated,” Yung says, “This includes social conventions and the complicated relationships between people.” Yung was deeply moved by the father’s story. 

Yung’s magnum opus Port of Call (2015) is based on the real case of a 16-year-old girl being dismembered in Hong Kong in 2008. The Sparring Partner (2022), which Yung produced, is based on the real case of a son murdering his parents in 2013. When it came to Papa (2024), Yung was also interested in local crimes. “I’m not really creative, I’m not good at imagining something from scratch. If you asked me to think of a script, it might take more than 10 years,” Yung says, emphasising that he was more interested in finding out the stories of those implicated in the cases.

Papa

“It’s natural to experience impermanence in life. It’s a crazy but real feeling. This story speaks to how someone tries to overcome, or resolve life’s challenges when they experience impermanence to the extreme,” Yung says, “I want to use the most extreme example to portray the most fundamental conditions of human nature. This includes fear, or the love between people that doesn’t manage to be expressed. I think that using this as the foundation and method of storytelling is the most compelling part of this story.” The father was aware of their intentions to film the movie, and provided a lot of details to support their adaptation process. 

Yung spent 9 months finishing the script for Port of Call (2015), but he ruminated on the Papa (2024) script for 10 years. In these 10 years, he experienced the death of family members, as well as the changes in relationships and in society, all of which allowed him to grow and reflect. “This movie represents my thoughts the best, because I’ve run it through my brain so many times, and it’s changed so many times. A lot of my views towards people’s relationships have been embedded in this movie. This is the purpose of contemplating for 10 years.”

As opposed to the aesthetic stylisation evident in Port of Call (2015), Papa (2024) is restrained. “I want to tell this story by going back to the basics. I want the audience to see something that’s ordinary and quotidian.” Yung hopes that the audience doesn’t sense the presence of a camera, and uses a 4:3 frame. “This sense of ordinariness feels like watching a home video, it’s almost like you’re not watching a movie at all. It suits our movie because it’s just like you’re watching the lives of another family.” That sense of ordinariness is aspired through everything from Yung’s directing to Sean Lau and every actor’s delivery.

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The family of four in "Papa"—Yuen Wing-nin (played by Sean Lau), wife Kam Yin (played by Jo Koo), son Yuen Hau-ming (played by Dylan So), and daughter Yuen Hau-yan (played by Lainey Hung)—was originally a happy family
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The family of four in "Papa"—Yuen Wing-nin (played by Sean Lau), wife Kam Yin (played by Jo Koo), son Yuen Hau-ming (played by Dylan So), and daughter Yuen Hau-yan (played by Lainey Hung)—was originally a happy family
The family of four in "Papa"—Yuen Wing-nin (played by Sean Lau), wife Kam Yin (played by Jo Koo), son Yuen Hau-ming (played by Dylan So), and daughter Yuen Hau-yan (played by Lainey Hung)—was originally a happy family
The family of four in "Papa"—Yuen Wing-nin (played by Sean Lau), wife Kam Yin (played by Jo Koo), son Yuen Hau-ming (played by Dylan So), and daughter Yuen Hau-yan (played by Lainey Hung)—was originally a happy family
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After receiving the script for Papa (2025), Sean Lau also deliberated for a long time. “That script has been on my bedside table, desk, living room table, dining table…You know, very few scripts reach the dining table,” Sean Lau says, “I’ve read this script many times and I really like what it says, because this isn’t about black and white truths, righteousness and evil, nor is it an accusatory movie. It’s not about who’s right or wrong, no; It’s not about economic disparity, how the rich act, no. This is a tragedy that happened to a very ordinary family, and it’s possible that it could happen to any family. What now, after it’s happened? The script provides a solution at the end, I think that’s very important.” 

Papa and Son

Sean Lau portrays a father who was all but ordinary originally. Nobody knows how to be a father regardless of whether that’s in reality or in a movie. It is learnt through life experience, growth, memories, observation, spending time with others, learning as you go— Sean Lau did the same. “As I was filming, I was learning how to be a father.” He jokes confidently, “My children are obedient and they’re quite talented in performing.” 

“How I behave as a father actually depends on how my son treats me.” Sean Lau is a three-time Hong Kong Film Awards Best Actor winner. On the contrary, Dylan So who plays Lau’s son was acting in a movie for the first time, but he showed no signs of fear. Their ‘father-son’ scenes were natural and realistic. Taking the noodle-eating scene for example, Lau says, “He was eating, I was watching him, he says “what are you looking at”. From there you know that the son isn’t afraid of the father…we have a very natural exchange.” Hong Kong films tend to be fast paced, Sean Lau got to experience the director intentionally slowing down to allow space for actors to feel and to interpret comfortably, “I could forget what I was trying to say, it was that relaxing. It was a very different experience.”

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As he spent time with young actors, Sean Lau was also learning how to become a father.
As he spent time with young actors, Sean Lau was also learning how to become a father.
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As he spent time with young actors, Sean Lau was also learning how to become a father.
As he spent time with young actors, Sean Lau was also learning how to become a father.
As he spent time with young actors, Sean Lau was also learning how to become a father.
As he spent time with young actors, Sean Lau was also learning how to become a father.
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In Yung’s perspective, Lau’s kind aura allowed for young actors to feel assured that they could behave as equals, otherwise they wouldn’t have been that relaxed. Claiming to be Lau’s fan, Yung says that all of Lau’s characters—like Panther in Life Without Principle (2011), Fong Chin-bok in The Greed of Man (1992)— feel like real people one would have met on the street. “I think he might have impeccable observation skills, or I don’t know if it’s empathy or…He doesn’t try to say something very philosophical, but more so about human nature and the things he’s observed, I think that’s really important to the Papa character.” 

Papa (2024) is about a once-ordinary father, and the love and loss he’s experienced after a huge change—how much he loves, how much he suffers. “The most difficult thing is that he’s stuck in the same place, trying to find a way out,” Yung says. Port of Call (2015) and Papa (2024) both depict this suffocating feeling of having nowhere to go, while reflecting the suppression and frustration people experience in their everyday lives. After 10 years of deliberation, Yung added an aspect of “letting go” and “tolerance” to Papa (2024), to “further explore mercy”. “To make sure that you and the other person are both comfortable when you’re communicating is the biggest form of mercy,” Yung says, “Especially for a movie like Papa that deals with an inescapable situation, sometimes beating around the bush and using a more comfortable method is best.” 

The one who plays Papa understands it this way, “I don’t really aspire for mercy, because I find that things that are too theoretical or abstract are really hard to convey. Don’t demand of yourself to be merciful, just get a little better, a little better, a little better every day, a little kinder every day— I think that’s already very good. Because I’m Papa, so I have to walk down this path along with everyone.” Take a deep breath and continue—that’s the only way to keep going. 

Sean Lau plays a father who learns the lessons of tolerance and letting go when trapped in the darkest situation.

Sean Lau plays a father who learns the lessons of tolerance and letting go when trapped in the darkest situation.

Because I’m Papa, so I have to walk down this path with everyone.

Sean Lau

Endings and Beginnings 

Towards the end of the interview, we discuss the significance and expectations of Papa in regards to their career. Lau says, “To me, it’s an ending and a new beginning. It’s really hard to explain, especially given the movie market right now. I think that even though Papa has wrapped up, something else has begun.” Yung continues, “Everyone thinks that I’ve returned to my comfort zone, filming a Hong Kong, very local movie. I hope this return is also a new beginning, and not a continuation of what came before. I think it’s given me a lot of new ideas, and I hope it gives Hong Kong people some new ideas too.” 

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"Papa" is Phillip Yung and Sean Lau's first time working together.

"Papa" is Phillip Yung and Sean Lau's first time working together.

I think it’s given me a lot of new ideas, and I hope it gives Hong Kong people some new ideas too.

Phillip Yung

Translation: Karrie Lam

Photography: James Mak
Photography Assistants: Haydn Yu and Nick Lai
Photo courtesy of Golden Scene Co. Ltd.
Location courtesy of The Mira Hong Kong